【讨论帖】以前的承诺该不该遵守

Vivid_o

其实我发现我是个很变态的人
对自己很变态对别人也很变态

现在我遇到了一个很棘手的问题：
某男曾经对一个女孩子有一个承诺
但是他们现在不在一起了和我在一起了
但是我对男人很苛刻
我觉得一个好男人，一个我愿意跟他在一起的男人
要是一个负责任讲信用的男人
那么抛开我的立场我觉得他应该对那个承诺负责
但是很不幸的是，我也是当事人
如果他要对那个承诺负责那我的立足点在哪里？
如果他不对那个承诺负责那他在我眼里就是个不负责没信用的男人
这样的男人我自然不能跟他在一起

就这样
我陷入了一个怪圈。
我跳不出来也没办法打破它
我觉得我个人智商已经没办法解决这样深奥且充满了悖论的问题
所以发上来大家讨论一下
我坚信，集体的力量是无穷的……

好，我滚出去吃饭了
回来参与讨论

i assume that promised was made based on true love

then at least at that moment, both of them tried to protect this beautiful promise and tried to make it work

but finally it didnt

if now, theres no more love existing between them, then theres no point to keep that promise as well

just bury it in their deep deep mind

let it pass

原帖由 ﹎īναńсе 于 2008-10-31 19:54 发表
i assume that promised was made based on true love

then at least at that moment, both of them tried to protect this beautiful promise and tried to make it work

but finally it didnt

if now, th ...

感情是一回事，承诺又是另外一回事
虽然说感情是承诺的基础但是……
你学过《经济法》没有？
票据产生之后就跟它产生的条件完全脱离
就算那些条件都消失了不在了可是票据还是具有效力的

一个道理
感情不在了但是承诺还是需要遵守的不是么？

its always a dilemma:)

so the only thing he can do is never make any promise any more if hes not sure he can do it

also applies to all the guys

marry two of u guys...

原帖由 ﹎īναńсе 于 2008-10-31 20:15 发表
its always a dilemma:)

so the only thing he can do is never make any promise any more if hes not sure he can do it

also applies to all the guys

{tjl} {tjl} 打英语真辛苦=。=

well.i think it depends on wat kind of promise it is.
if that girl do need help,i will encourge my boy to help out

原帖由 米家 于 2008-10-31 22:33 发表
well.i think it depends on wat kind of promise it is.
if that girl do need help,i will encourge my boy to help out

好吧，你们都想的很通透……


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其实我发现我是个很变态的人
对自己很变态对别人也很变态"

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